Two Simple Steps For A More Successful Mediation

1. Actively Listen Active listening is a learned skill.  Much of the time we spend listening, we are also thinking how we can use what the other person is saying to develop a reply.  As attorneys, especially litigators, we take pride in our ability to do just this.  We purposefully listen for the holes, inconsistencies and[…]

Top Ten Ways To Protect Your Kids From The Fallout Of A High Conflict Break-Up

1. Talk to your children about your separation. Studies show that only 5 percent of parents actually sit down, explain to their children when a marriage is breaking up, and encourage the kids to ask questions. Nearly one quarter of parents say nothing, leaving their children in total confusion. Talk to your kids. Tell them,[…]
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Introduction to Embodied Conflict: the neural roots of conflict and communication

Characteristics of the neural encoding function, the basis of learning, memory, cognition, and identity, are at the root of and help to explain conflict in our social relations and why some conflicts are difficult to prevent and resolve. Embodied Conflict presents the neural encoding function in layman’s terms, outlining seven key characteristics and exploring their[…]

Divorce Mediation

Divorce can be stressful and painful, but it doesn’t have to be. There are many benefits to Divorce Mediation including cost effectiveness, faster turnaround  time, confidentiality, and more control over the divorce process.   Divorce Mediation is a cost effective solution because it often results in a cost of 40% to 60% less according to[…]

Best Tips for Successful & Effective Co-Parenting After Divorce

Best Tips for Successful & Effective Co-parenting After Divorce The best tips for successful and effective co-parenting after divorce can be debated. But basically, it all boils down to the same idea: successful & effective co-parenting is as hard as you let it become or as easy as you choose to make it. Boom. That[…]